You would rather think on the very first sight of the title that this would be an obscene post or a rude inquiry but I encourage you to tread on, you won’t lose anything perhaps, if you would. 🙂
We were born in this world as an empty set upon which we can take up endless and endless of possibilities. The mere birth of a person alters pretty much everything in the course of human history. You may feel neglected at times, like your existence has never contributed a worthwhile impact on the human race but you should remember that your emergence to the world pretty much affected the lives of everyone around you. It’s hard not to be condescending knowing that our very actions will forever ripple throughout hereon. And so thus every other human existing.
The things we do, the things others do and even the things that we chose not to do ultimately would impact our lives in ways we could never imagine. Who knows what could be the consequence of our actions committed on the present to the people that we are on the future? A simple gesture could mean nothing now, but who knows that that gesture would spun an endless string of romance. Or a little toy airplane given as a gift on our toddler days might ignite a long been hidden childhood love.
Although we are completely the faculty of our own decisions and actions we are utterly passive on the things that happen to us. That is one thing that we humans are flustered about. But whatever happens through the random actions and unknown variables of this endless rippling lake that is human possibility, we came to believe those ripples would actually and timely bring us to where we want to be. Keeping a blind faith on the universe and trusting the serendipity that it nimbly plays on it’s playful hands called “Fate” wholly gives humans the pretensive overconfidence that at some point we will have a great luck. Maybe we are hurting so much today, maybe everything has piled on upon us, or maybe hope is eluding from our very souls but on whatever circumstances we may be undertaking that we can nonchalantly still say, “Whenever it is, I know things will get better.”
As it is ostensibly said: love is a gift and thanks to others. Thanks to others for the fact that if not for each of their actions, none will be existent as such as the love spoken about. And it could be thought of this way: that the actions we have performed together with the things done by others are constantly in motion and helping us to a better situation. Trust that this guzzling heavy machinery that is the universe is continuously executing its plans to make you sure that we end up just where we want to be, at the right place and at the right time with the right person.